32 Inside A Woman's Heart...

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Every woman has a kid living in her. This kid comes out of the “matured” her when she is all alone, or with her best gang of girls or with her loved ones, with whom she can share her innocent part. She might do foolish acts sometimes, might get involve in kiddish behavior or might fail to fulfill your expectations. Being a husband or a loving partner, it is a guy’s duty to understand her and accept all her shortcomings…

For Guys: Remember, the last time you made a mistake, how calmly she accepted the real you? So, why can’t you? :| So, for all those men who are eager to peep into a woman’s mind, here is something for you to read now…

• Privacy is admired by every woman. Just cuddle her sometime in a lonely place and let her know her importance in your life.


• Women hate when a perfect evening out with her loving mate is spoiled or does not work out the way she would have liked! Above all, she hates when you take her to crowded places. So next time, plan properly and think of some cozy place.

• If you are taking a woman for a holiday, you have no right to ask her to cook or entertain you just because you are bored! Remember it’s her holiday too!

• Women love to share things. At the same time, they want someone special in their lives who would share every aspect of him with her! She loves to be treated special herself too!
• Think out of the box and ready the bed for her at night! She would love it. Also, she loves a clean, nice smelling home! All hints are given to you now…

• This tip is for husbands: Stop asking her every time, where is my wallet, car keys, tie, handkerchief! Come on folks, she is not your slave. ( Sorry dad, I know you read my blog, but this is not pointed towards you :P Its for all men. I know you are as sportive as me :D )

• A woman loves to have a man in her life who loves her like there are no other women in this world! She loves to get his attention, and craves for even small love gestures like saying “I love You” and “Yes, I Care For You.” So do it!

• She also longs to have her “Me” time. So take care of that! Being a mother of two does not mean that she cannot watch a movie alone or cannot go out with her girl friends or can’t read a book in complete solitary! Ofcourse she can. She holds all the right.

• Never call your girl FAT! Trust me, if anything a girl wants at the top of her priority list, it could be a machine which would allow her to get rid of all the fat she accumulated while binging upon a nice and big chocolate fudge! So, beware, she would ask you again and again, ‘Am I looking fat in this little red dress?’ Politely say No Sweety, you are perfect! She would love you for that. Otherwise, women just love binging upon junk food and they truly wish that there should have been a zero calorie cheese pizza available at every outlet!

• Surprises! Yes Surprises! Women love getting surprises. No, it’s nothing to do with extravagant gifts… Rather, it can be a small gesture like cooking for her, an unexpected coffee after a tiring day or no matter what! Even a small flower bud would do… but just do it!

• It does not matter how bad they cook, they would love to get appreciations from their husbands! Sure, they are not as good a chef as your mom, but give her some time, she will learn. Till then, just appreciate her. (She would really love if you would prepare an unexpected dinner for her once in a while… She may not say it but sometimes going into the kitchen and making her favorite dish may give her all the pleasures of her life… And please , no making of noodles or maggi).

• I have many married female friends. They are my close buddies and going inside a married woman’s mind, I can tell you that she won’t mind complementing a hot guy passing through her once in a while, when her husband is not around! In fact, there are times when she too would like to behave like an unmarried teenage girl who loves admitting her attraction towards a hot guy. But that’s how she is! Sometimes naughty, sometimes decent! But this is “SHE” and you need to learn to respect her.
/bye

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32 comments:

Anonymous said...

Awesome! Awesome! Awesome!

Parthasarathy said...

Well said young lady. Good attempt. These are the little things a woman wants and needs. Noted.

Anvesh said...

Interesting. Girls are so simple but we feel they are complex because we dont understand few simple basics. This are good tips. You have a clear idea on what a girl is. Good.

--sameer-- said...

Rightly said by someone , no one can tell the depth of the sea and no one can tell whats inside a woman's heart. A woman only can understand, what or how other women feel. Hmm nice topic where we boys can know a bit what girls look for.Now , to follow all these tips I have to marry sooon =)) lol :-P

Anvitha said...

Lol Sameer :P. Then get ready, hunt for ya girl

Triveni said...

Something which I always wanted to tell my guy But I never couldn't and could've never be able to express so beautifully! I am gonna make him read this post. Thank you ANVITHA.

__--sameer--__ said...

Hmm yes many girls cant express as Trivenni said,
U did a wonderful job, Anvitha, by posting this which is useful for girls and we boys too;)) Thanks again for this wonderful post.

Beryl said...

Very interesting. Good Job.

Nupur said...

Good One :)

Akwasibah Ademola said...

Good. I lika it. I sayz in Bemba azhuaakai abhojiy apombhe hugfunt iszeme. I like post and i also ajhai opompot emeli fogostzva! :D ahypoma!

Anvitha said...

Hi Ademola. Were you abusing me? what language was that??!!?? :o

Anonymous said...

Did I tell you, YOU ARE FAT !!! DAMN FAT !!

Anonymous said...

woman's heart is very simple yet very complex...guys if u cant understand her heart, just stay with her she will takecare of the rest...if u can understand(somehow) her heart , she will stay with u forever,and (ofcourse again )she will takecare of the rest...

anvi keep rockiing girl..

Anonymous said...

I finally read the Post. You did great job.
All this things happen only before marriage when they are bf and gf, but once they are married the men stop doing all this nice things.

But anyways nice post Woochie.
~bella~

Anvitha said...

@ Anonymous; comment number 12.... LMAO. I love to hear that :P this is a news for me =))

Triveni said...

hehehe... To that Mr Anonymous @ comment 12- Seems you are sick at mind! You need some rest and go, visit a doctor.

Whoever said...

Good

బాలు said...

అన్విత చాల బాగా రాశావు, నీలాంటి స్నేహితురాలు పరిచయం కావటం మా అదృష్టం, ఈ బ్లాగ్ చదవటం వల్ల నేను చాలా విషయాలు తెలుసుకుంట్టున్నాను, ధన్యవాదములు అన్విత

Anvitha said...

Thnx Balu :-o

Ranjith said...

Gosh Anvitha... all in favour of girls? what on Earth are you?

Anvitha said...

Hi Ranjith! I’m a human being! What are you?? Its more in favour of guys cuz it tips em how to impress and make happy his gal! Seems you need a licence for being so damn stupid :|

Akwasibah Ademola said...

I not abuse you. My lanugaege Bemba. Zambia. I tell u that I like your post. You are a lovely mind.

raghu said...

good work anvitha ;))

Anvitha said...

Hey Ademola! Thank You!

ADMIRER said...

hmmm gr8 post dear clapss clapss and lots of clapss....the post tells about wht girls really want for herself and from her partners (if i m not wrong)..this may help many fellows to understand their spouse/partners feelings and how to make them happy, eventually making their relationship a happy one...well tried...
hope the next post can help to know wht actually boys/men want other than their carrier (ofcourse few r never serious abt anything) , becoz most of men dont know exactly want they want, they just go by the flow..men r confused more than women, may be thatz y men stick themself with only few imp thing (things that they think r imp to them)....anvi, if u intend to post something on a inside story of mens heart(i m laughing i dont know y)(men need it more than woman haha), i wanna c how it would comeout...ofcourse, women doesnt need to put much effort to impress men:).....anyway..keep going anvi..wish u luck..(pardom me if i offending any1).....ADMIRER

Anvitha said...

Hey Admirer.. Thanks a lot for the comment! Well I think I really need to work hard on what guys may want.. becuz am a girl, it was easy for me to write what a girl wants and whats in her heart and mind... But to know whats in a guy's mind... I think I should work on that...:P LOL

ADMIRER said...

hmm expresing feelings is the most complicated confusing complex problemss that most of many people face in their lifes( ofcourse not people like anvi..she is too expressing and good with her words) ....."sit together and chat" is the only solution i can come up with :D..atleast try..but dont close urself in a box and put ur partner/other fellow to a test to sneak inside ur heart.. thats difficult process...if u try atleast u may learn how to express step by step..ithink der r many way to express something..but there r only few effective ways to make u r partner understand want u want..and wht r those effective ways? that's the imp thing one as to findout for themself..and these ways of expressing thing must be appropriate with the recipient too..for suppose, u cannot express u r love todays u r pet dog with a bunch of roses right :D ..lol..i dont know if this comment makes any sense or not...tried my best ..keep smiling

SandeepLaxman said...

Believe it or not! I am always kiddie :) I control my kiddie emotions when talking to matured people although it is very hard for me to do so. I think every human being has this kiddie behavior in them,not just in a woman . But the maturity in our work and profession(not just the maturity in our body) overtakes the kiddie behavior in us. I just want to be a kid who would love to bask in the warmth of my momma's love ! But now, I sometimes wonder whether my momma's love is same as when i was a kid! Miss my momma's love :(

Admirer.. said...

:O:O sandeepppp...in all the god's creations, momma's lov is the only thing which has never changed from the begining and will never change till the end(((all mommas ^:)^ ))...if im not wrong even god was desperate to experience mom's lov and came to this lord as a baby..so dont worry u r mom loves u, and dont insult her lov to her kids by doubting it :P

SandeepLaxman said...

Dude i din mean to doubt my momma's love on me..i was meaning my momma's pampering and coddling when i was a kid . Now that i have grown up to be an adult and i feel i m missing that thing from my momma!
That;s what i meant..Sorry if it was not rightly communicated

Anonymous said...

nice one again..one tip to add here...even if a gal falls for you and is in love with you, always keep telling her that you love her, no matter how much love you feel for her inside, you gotta express it time and again to a gal to make her feel lovable.......Shri!

ll_Show_Stopper_ll said...

Good work anvi...:p

Hope to see some more meaning ful posts from u

nJoy,
Rahul reddy

Let Anvitha Know What You Feel About this..:)